Wednesday, August 27, 2008

The Belly has peaked!

No I have never seen a foot stick out like that on my belly. But I have seen other things indicating lots of motion, rolls and squirms. :) I am 33 weeks today and I think my belly is as big as it's going to get. I would have thought my belly would have been monstrous by now, but apparently not. It still a pretty small belly to be 8 months along. I guess it's just my genetics. I know the baby isn't underdeveloped; he's 4 pounds and 3 ounces as of Monday. And he's head down so he's ready for takeoff! It's getting down to the wire and it's kind of crazy that we will have a little boo chilling in like 7 weeks. I have to start getting/ordering all the supplies for the homebirth. My doula is probably going to let me use her birth pool from her store just to try it out. She says she knows that I am going to have a beautiful birth. I think so too even though my mom and my grandmother have launched full on war against my homebirth. I am not really letting it get to me though. They should respect my choice, end of story. I don't plan on discussing it further with either one of them. I had a 5 minute discussion with my grandmother on saturday about it. Boy did she bring the drama! "Your mom told me some disturbing news..." Save it for the stage Granny! Anyway, I haven't heard from her since. I think when I brought up the whole water birth thing, that just pushed her over the edge. My mom knew what she was doing when she told my grandmother. I wasn't even going to tell my grandmother because I knew she would panic and worry herself sick. So my mom launched the sneak attack by tipping her off, knowing damn well she would call me and bring the drama. Unfortunately for my mom, that little stunt is definitely not enough to dissuade me from my planned homebirth. It will go ahead as planned. B and I love our midwife; she is a real sweetie and she keeps it real. I love her nurturing/bossy side too. I was cracking up when she schooled B about how it wasn't just me having the baby, but "we" who were having the baby, hence his attendance during my prenatal exam was mandatory. You should have seen his face, so classic!

2 comments:

The Original Wombman said...

You know, I'm not one for lying but I told my mother and my entire family that I was going to give birth in the hospital with the same CNM's I had had for my first son. Even that was not thrilling to them because they thought I should have an OB instead of midwives. I couldn't even imagine the drama that would happen if I told them I was going with a lay midwife at home. So I lied. And lied. And lied some more. And had a beautiful, fabulous homebirth. I would *never* birth in the hospital again. I'd go work part-time while pregnant to get the money to home birth. I'd charge it. Whatever I had to do! :)

Yes, sister, be strong and don't let anything anyone says discourage y ou. You will need your head and spirit clear in order to have the beautiful homebirth experience you are destined to have. If folks are not trying to add to the beauty of the experience, they need to go on.

Unknown said...

this picture looks really fake and photo shopped